Your Child Won't Play Alone?
Let's Change That Together
Teaching independent play isn't about leaving your kid alone. It's about building confidence, one minute at a time.
Age-by-Age Breakdown
0–6 Months: Presence Without Performance Read More
Your baby doesn't need entertainment—they just need to know you're nearby while they explore.
What to Try
- 2–5 minutes on a blanket with 1–2 toys
- You stay nearby doing your own calm activity
- Mirror play for self-discovery
What to Say
- "I see you stretching your hands!"
- "I'm right here while you play."
6–18 Months: The Check-In Phase Read More
They'll look back at you constantly—that's them building independence, not dependence.
What to Try
- Safe kitchen drawer to explore
- Cause-and-effect toys
- Repetitive play (totally normal!)
What to Say
- "You found that ball again!"
- "I'll stay close while you play."
18–36 Months: Short & Sweet Read More
10–15 minute play sessions are wins at this age. They want you watching but not interfering.
What to Try
- Visual timers so they know when you'll check in
- Simple building blocks or vehicles
- Stay nearby but look "busy"
What to Say
- "I'll check on you in 5 minutes."
- "Keep building—you're so focused!"
3–5 Years: Imagination Takes Over Read More
This is where the magic happens—30–45 minutes of creative, independent play is possible!
What to Try
- Set up "invitations to play" (half-started activities)
- Introduce "quiet time" instead of naps
- Rotate toys weekly to maintain interest
What to Say
- "What will you create during quiet time?"
- "Your ideas are so creative!"
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